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Tuesday, 27 October 2015

THE DIDACTIC EYESORE (THE LESSONS I LEARNT FROM PROSTITUTES)



Sometimes ago I strolled down to a brothel in my hood, I really didn’t know why I went there but nothing was around to stop me. I got there, sat in the bar, as I watched other dudes sat, sipping beer and looking satisfied after a short time service from the call-girls.
Where I sat quietly, one of the call girls who must have thought I had a lot of money on me, though older than me came dancing seductively. She shakes her backside to the rhythm of the music while I was there dreaming a doggy style with her for the whole night. She was all in my head, she went away from the light waiting for me to come and I did.
Shh! I called her and she slouched closer. I want us to have fun with each other I whispered unconvincingly, placing my hand around her waistline.

 She angrily shoved off my hand and demanded for bluntly.
“How much?” I asked,
 “3500 for short time” she replied with a waving whisper.
“3500!!!” I queried and wondered why a reasonable man would pay 3500 for less than two minutes enjoyment with a prostitute.
“You be virgin?”  Na today you start to dey carry Ashawo? She angrily asked and slouched away.
She was right, I was a virgin. I left and went to a near by hotel without trying to find out what spirit is pushing me to do a thing like this for the first time.

At the bar of the hotel I sat at a corner to watch guys smoke, drink and negotiate with the available call-girls, for either short time or TDB (till daybreak) fun. Where I was sitting, I set my eyes on a half-cast-like, well dressed and too tender to be called a call-girl, I presumed she was the bar manager but I was wrong, she also had a bunch of keys in her middle finger like the other call-girls. I wondered what could have driven that angelic girl to prostitution but I couldn’t draw lines on my thought before I asked her for the night, “N5000” she insisted but I managed to beat down her price to N3000.
Though I had no penny on me, I followed her to her room where the TV was watching the ready bed. In order to avoid an imminent disgrace, I acted as if I was making call but it wasn’t going to work out, so I told her to strip so I would see what I am paying for, she declined insisting she’s not my girlfriend therefore I should pay her first, before that she already tore the condom and ready to wear it on me, answer me if you wan f.ck, or go out make I go hustle; time dey go beg. As I showed no sign of seriousness, she stood by the door and ordered me to go out.

Though I still didn’t know what pushed me there and I wouldn’t have escaped if I had money on me but even without the fun, the experience was didactic. I learnt the secret of having a successful career from the world’s oldest and one of the most condemned profession.
I learnt that prostitutes are epitome of determination as a result of right promising. They have two major goals; to make money and to have fun but they will never place having fun ahead of money making, they show no sentiments, they understand the second can always come before the first but the first which they need most won’t come if they place the second first.

Another quality they possess is undiluted focus, they are ready to go to bed with anyone, physically challenged or not as far as they are first assured of their payments. Their major focus is money making and they won’t trade it for any bed magician, a man’s stunning look or outfits. All these do not make any sense to them if they find out you aren’t going to pay them or compliment their duties well discharged with more cash.
The only set of guys that gets their attention is the ones that could spend their salaries on them.
They don’t also care about what name the guys call them, not even how they look at them; what matters to them is that you pay them for their services. That’s focus.

The pedagogical aspect of this eyesore should be imbibed by all men that desire to be successful in all works of life.
Just as a prostitute would never compromise her priority which is to make money first so they should learn to set their priorities and follow up regardless of any distraction. Another smart aspect of them is that you have to pay them before service if not they won’t allow you on them regardless of how aroused you are.
This is a street smart lesson that we ought to apply to our business; assuring payments for great services delivered to avoid unnecessary arguments with customers.

Just as they will ignore all insults, look down on all forms of disgrace to sleep with any man and get their payment in full, anyone that aspires to be successful career, marital and spiritual life should be able to detach themselves from what they think people would say about them for doing what they do and move on to apply the right principles that it takes to achieve their set goals.

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